A Review of My Son, The Jihad, a Netflix Movie
Lessons we can learn from this movie:
- When Thomas couldn’t keep a job, the extreme group gave him economic security.
- When Thomas wanted to belong, but felt on the outside, the extreme group gave him a sense of belonging.
- When Thomas’ girlfriend broke up with him, the extreme group gave him comfort.
His father and mother divorced, leaving Thomas broken on the inside. He got into trouble, couldn’t keep a job, and his mom, Sally, tried to reach him, and was kept at a distance. The movie described the home of Sally and Thomas as “non-religious.”
Sally mentioned God once in a while, but was she a believer? The movie was helpful in understanding why and how someone becomes radicalized. Then, a tweet on one of my other sites made me sad.
Seemingly focused only on the political angle of the refugee issue, someone’s tweet stripped the humanity away from the situation. While not related to the movie, it made me think of those three things that attracted Thomas to the terrorist group in the United Kingdom:
- Economic Security.
- A Sense of Belonging.
- Comfort.
How we can fill those needs as a compassionate people? What would it look like to love a difficult person? Granted, we can only help so much, but what would radical prayer look like? What if we put our faith wholly in God and pray fervently for the lost? What if we grieved for the lost like a mother her son; even if that lost person was different than us?
So let’s go over these points again:
- Economic Security.
- Help them discover job skills.
Help them with job applications. - Mentor them to keep a job.
- Suggest volunteering to acquire job skills.
- Teach them English so they can keep a job.
- Help them discover job skills.
- A Sense of Belonging.
- Thomas’ father left him at a crucial time. A father figure is very important and does affect a child’s development.
- The father figure in a person’s family affects their outlook on who God is.
- Be understanding of someone’s background.
- Learn to listen.
- Be a mentor or someone else will.
- Let that person into your inner circle.
- Learn about their culture.
- Learn how to build cultural bridges.
- Comfort
- Very simply, the gift of giving of your time.
- Saying nothing and listening.
- Withholding judgment sometimes.
- Being gentle.
The refugee situation and radical Islam are complex situations, and like you, I am learning, too, what it means to minister to the unreached, the unloved, the peoples on the move, and the unchurched. We must really examine why someone like Thomas could become a terrorist and how refugees are a target for terror; sometimes, even a scapegoat.
Pray as I:
- Learn more about “Peoples on the Move.” According to CNN, there will be 110,000 refugees by 2017.
- Stay on top of the latest news on this.
- Raise support so I can do this full time and reach people like Thomas who needs a friend.
- Develop as a missionary.
- Grow in the Word.